Question: How many times does it
take attempting to restart this plan to get it right? Is there ever a
time where I should just realize that I'm not going to be able to do it?
Answer: As many as it TAKES, and NO! NEVER GIVE UP!
That is what I learned in what I term "The Lost Years" of 2008-2010.
You
see, I had just gained ALL my weight back. Yes, ALL of it. And four
MORE pounds to add insult to injury. I weighed 272 pounds, after having
weighed 128 at my goal the year before. I was as large as I had ever
been in my entire life. I was as demoralized as I had ever been in my
entire life. And I still clung to hope. I ordered "Medifast".....
again. I tried to restart. One day. Fall down. Day one again. Fall
down. Half a day. Fall down. A third of a day. Fall down. Two
days. Fall down.
Do you see a pattern here? No, it is not the pattern of FAILURE. It is the pattern of PERSEVERANCE.
You
see 20 failed attempt to get back on plan. At the time, I did too.
That is how I chose to look at it, but I kept trying. I kept at it. I
may have had a Mis-Take 99 times, but on the 100th time it TOOK.
And
I ran with it. And I went a week! Then I faltered. Then I got up the
next day and began the day ON PLAN. Then I went two weeks. Then I
faltered. Then I got up the next day and began the day ON PLAN.
How
did I finally line up enough on plan days to see steady losses? To
begin gaining momentum in my plan? I read Dr. A's Habits of Health. I
started incorporating them into my life. I stopped focusing on my
failures and instead focused on the beautiful wonderful things that I
could create, that I could bring IN to my life as a RESULT of this
process. I stopped hating myself. I started believing that if I just
did what was written in the plan, the Quick Start Guide, if I just
stopped substituting my OWN judgment for that of the experts who wrote
this plan, that I would achieve similar results as all those successful
people who had done this before me.
And I did. And it worked. And the perseverance paid OFF.
So if you are on your 98th restart, I have 4 very important words for you:
DO.
NOT.
GIVE.
UP.
Rinse and Repeat!
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