This program is very simple.
Deceptively so, actually. Eat the food, drink the water, move your body
a little bit each day. Simple.
But it isn't EASY and here's
why. Sometimes our brains and our emotions seem to conspire against us
in a perfect storm that takes us by surprise (or not). You see, many
times we don't FEEL like doing the plan, but we KNOW we need to because
our brains are telling us to over-ride our feelings and just continue to
follow the plan. But what happens when we don't FEEL like doing the
plan, and our brain hops on board with the rationalizations and AGREES
with our emotions?
There is such thing as a WILL. You see, the
Mind and the Emotions are part of our make-up, but so is the WILL. And
at the times the Mind and Emotions are in AGREEMENT with the Will then
this program is simple AND it is EASY TOO. When the Emotions jump ship
and the Mind goes with them, when all that is left is your WILL, it is
at THOSE times that you really find out whether you TRULY wanted this or
not.
Recognizing your WILL and it's role in your journey is
key. It IS your "Why", and it is paramount to develop a solid "Why"
when embarking on this journey to health. Because truly, it is the only
thing that will keep you on track when your mind and emotions just
aren't playing nice with you and your goals.
I learned this on my
marathon. I knew there was a mind, will, and emotions, sure, but I
don't know that I had ever truly EXPERIENCED the separation of the mind
and the will before I passed mile 16 in Paris, France on April 6th. I
have always been a thinker, you see, and I sort of pride myself on being
a rational thinker. I'm also a persuasive thinker and can present
persuasive arguments for just about anything, or so my GRE test told me
last month (I scored pretty high for persuasive writing LOL...go
figure....). And usually my thoughts are on board with my will. In
fact, I can't think of a time that my thoughts were NOT on board with my
will UNTIL the Paris Marathon.
Mile 16 came around and my
emotions wanted to STOP and get on the support bus. Then my MIND agreed
with my emotions, and told me "You should really get on the support
bus. You made a great effort. It's time to stop." But I kept moving
forward. Again, my emotions welled up in me "STOP ALREADY!!" and my
mind agreed "Yes, look, there is the support bus, do you REALLY think
it's wise to go another 10 miles with permanent charlie horses in both
legs from your hips to your heels?" But I kept moving forward. Taking
the next step. NOT getting in the bus. KEEPING my arms down so the bus
didn't think I was waving them to stop for me. Taking the next step.
THAT was my will taking action. Doing the work. Taking the next step.
So
what is your will telling you about your journey to health? Do you
WANT to be healthy? WHY do you want to be healthy? Because there WILL
be times on your journey where your emotions AND your mind are ready to
throw in the towel and quit. WILL your WILL be ready to take over when
that happens? What WILL you do?
Rinse and Repeat!
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